Man or Woman

The way I have been raised, a man is supposed to provide for his family, be strong and big, work often, and have no household responsibilities. He has the money so he has the power. The woman is supposed to cook, clean, and cater to her husband, while working and caring for the children. She goes to the soccer games and he stays home. He can speak out but she cannot. A man has a penis and is strong. A woman has nice breasts and takes extra steps to be healthy, yet she must be weak. Her vagina is open for the man when he wants it. My father's mother, my grandmother, is a Mexican woman and still makes his plate, even though he is almost fifty years old. My father expects that from my mother who was raised by my very independent, southern grandmother. It is two opposite ideas of what is meant to be a woman and a man. I disagree a bit with both. Men and women should act in whatever ways it is natural.